Be
selfless. Emphasize the receiver, not
the sender.
Be
specific. Focus on specifics rather than
generalities.
Be
sincere. Show your honest feelings by using unpretentious language
Be spontaneous. Make the message sound natural, fresh, and direct. Avoid canned phrases.
Keep
the message short. Although goodwill messages may be as long as needed, they generally are fairly short.
Answering Congratulatory Messages
In answering congratulatory messages:
Send a brief note expressing your appreciation.
Tell how good the message made you feel.
Accept praise gracefully. Dont make belittling statements (Im not really all that good!).