Behaviors of mother
r/t trimester
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1st trimester inform, feels ambivalent, anxiety
r/t labor and responsibility, looks for physical changes as proof of pregnancy,
special feelings or renewed interest in mother help form ID of role
introspective and passive
2nd trimester regressive and i
ntrospective,
projects others lock of interest on to partner, feels movement and
incorporates baby into herself, feeling better, increased desire for sexual
activity,
3rd trimester - anxiety and tension, discomfort and
insomnia as size etc makes her more uncomfortable, prepares for birth, dreams
about baby, spurt of energy
Behaviors of father
1st trimester
affected by age, economics etc., link with posterity, aware of own sexual
feelings, may be more or less. Deals with spouse interest in her mother.
Increase outside activity frequently s
additional source of income.
2nd trimester gives extra attention to
mom,deals with mood ch involvement with pregnancy, may have fears and
fantasies about himself being pregnant, may be uneasy with this feminine
aspect in himself, may have difficulty accepting he is not most important
person at this time
3rd trimester
Adapts to sexual adaptations, financial responsibility, more tender,
dreams of child, usually older not newborn. Feels ultimate responsibility in
well-being of mom and baby.
Couvade unintentional development of
physical symptoms resembling pregnancy
Siblings rivalry, a threat to
security of their relationship.
Involve
the child in helping to get ready. Provide consistency people, things etc.
Expect regression, soiling it potty trained, wanting to drink from bottle or
breast
School age and adolescent family involvement, teach as
appropriate.
Grandparents:
supportive of the couple,
Young grandparents may not show as much interest as anticipated, recognize
changes
Culture:
each has own
ceremonial ritual or rites r/t values.
Understand male and female roles in culture to understand individual
behaviors.
Health values and beliefs